Why Not To Pull Your Punches When You Evaluate?

Quick to learn new information, read new tips, absorb information and embrace a process of change. Start with good intentions and great gusto. Success or failure comes and it’s too easy to keep going and forget to evaluate the results. Even if we have review periods built in, it’s all too easy to move straight […]

What’s The Impact Of Not Reaching Your Goals? I’m Going To Enjoy The Pain Of Failure Now…

“Whoever scores the most goals wins the game.” If it’s true in sports, it’s true in our own, personal development, too. Although we may not be competing against another team, the biggest opposition that we’re up against is ourselves. I don’t know about you, but I find that if I am not careful I can […]

Get Easy Results Without A Personal Development Addiction

Ok- so here’s the deal. There’s so many ‘tools’ we want to try out, ‘things’ we want to learn, ‘skills’ and approaches we want to develop. I sometimes find it overwhelming. Do you? I’m a harsh self critic which doubles the challenge. In a quick braindump here’s a few things in my personal development list […]

Why Do We Fear What Others Think Of Us?

I’ve been bothered recently. Bothered about my the About Me page on my website and how I present my ‘story.’ Your equivalent may be your CV or Bio. Mine feels a bit Disney. Because I don’t have a typical ‘happy ending’ after the roller-coaster business ride I’ve been on, I’m concerned I may present stories […]

We Get It Right. They Get It Wrong. Really Wrong.

We get it right. They get it wrong. Really wrong. Why can’t he/she/they see how completely wrong they are? They need to be told. We need to show them. We can’t give in to their ‘wrongness’ because they may find ‘rightness’ in their ‘wrongness’. If they were a little: A. Smarter B. Less emotional C. […]